Coaching
Your world, the world, is just a model in your mind
To play with the world, and your place in it
Play with your mind
And become exactly who, exactly what you want to be
So much is possible with strong coaching
Your character is determined by the model held in your mind about who you are: how you react to the world, how you behave, even how you think. You are not aware of holding and using this model, it's just how you are. But the model is there, and to change how you are, you must change the model.
Parents' and society's conditioning sets up the basic model, and life's experiences mould it, and, as nature's way of capturing and securing values and learning, it's not easy to change. In this sophisticated world, though, that stability might not be appropriate. We have so much scope now to become what we want, to do what we want.
Coaching is about changing that model, and, with it, you, your character, how you are in the world, your world. That's not the whole story, of course, but much of the basis is in that model. Whether you want to different because it would be more interesting, or different because now isn't good, if the model is approached lightly, changing it can be fun, and the rewards are huge.